Yes, Kala has fled. Kala has better things to do than masochism.

Now, Kala, be kind. I know you are going through a rough time as of lately, but maliciousness is not your style. Be gracious that you have a home no matter where you wander. Some should be so lucky.
Ben, you and I had a brief interaction long ago, in the form of Kala's defenders writing you a big fat threat letter. I was the neutral, advisory, attempted peace treaty at the bottom. I regret that you have been forced to have such animosity thrown at you in recent months, but it happens that Kala is very well guarded by those that would not see her hurt to save their lives. I am one. And, as it turns out, she is hurt again. Bear in mind that the aforementioned letter was little more that reinforcing propaganda, a support letter to reinforce Jakous's power in her life. Sad, but true. The tide has ebbed, now, as far as that issue is concerned. Now we move on to new things. Well, you have moved on to new things. My only message is, be sincere. I may be very, very wrong, but my interpretation of the information given me suggests that you lied to her or at very least withheld information. Be sincere and let her cool, that is all I can say. And don't worry, she comes back eventually. she cannot find the power in herself to hate for long. Not when there was love to be had.

I don't belive i lied. I tried to make things clear. But its difficult when things arnt clear to your self. Its no excuse i know. and I have been nothing but sincere with her. I understand her anger and feelings and will not deny her them nor fight them for I am in the wrong. again Elijah thank you for the calm and clear words in so much chaos.